In this episode, Pastor Mark talks about the suspension of Monsignor Gigantiello in Brooklyn and asks why priest who have perpetrated sexual abuse were not dealt with as harshly and quickly.
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Pastor Mark is a Christian Pastor, author, blogger, and sometimes background actor. He brings all of his years of life experience to ask spiritual questions about the ordinary events of life.
Monday Ministerial Musings
By Rev. Mark William Ennis
2023 Blog #48
December 4, 2023
The Brooklyn Archdiocese Suspended a Priest for What?
I recently read in the New York Times that there was discipline done to a priest, Monsignor Jamie J. Gigantiello. The diocese of Brooklyn removed him from his administrative duties because he allowed a music video to be filmed in his congregation, Our Lady of Mount Carmel-Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary, in Williamsburg, Brooklyn. He was disciplined just a few days after his “crime” was seen publicly.
What was his crime? He allowed a pop singer, Sabrina Carpenter, to film a music video inside the sanctuary. Part of the music video shows coffins on the altar of the church as Sabrina dances and sings. Apparently, the church hierarchy was offended by her song or having coffins on the altar. I watched the video and didn’t see anything to be offended about. You may watch it here if you like: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kLbn61Z4LDI
What amazed me was the rapid response in relieving the Monsignor of his duties. For two decades now I have been counseling victims of religious abuse. A number of these victims were sexually abused by priests. Most recently I have worked with a group “My Sanctuary Healing,” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HWVzWYqGKvU&list=PLTOsN58Bh3VXkYo8S-22DS9ATTllz1-P6
I have found a pattern amid such abuse victims: they all report the slow response of the church to discipline priests who have perpetrated sexual abuse. Often, instead of discipline, these perpetrators are moved, parish to parish to be given “another chance.” Of course, such perpetrators commit other crimes against innocent people.
The feature film, “Spotlight,” chronicles how a few priests perpetrated sexual crimes for decades and never received the same discipline that Monsignor Gigantiello received. One must wonder why he received harsher discipline than priests who are, or have been, sexual predators. One only has to do a web search to see how many priests in Brooklyn alone were sexual predators but were not disciplined for years or decades. What makes this music video so offensive that a Monsignor had to be disciplined over it? Is allowing a music video, which was offensive to some, more offensive than sexual offenses against children? Such offenses against children ought to enrage all of us. I believe that I can safely say that God is enraged over children being hurt.
When the church disciplines a priest for allowing a music video to be filmed in church, faster than it reacts to child sexual abuse, the church, I believe, is not listening to Jesus. I am reminded of the book published by Jimmy Breslin several years ago entitled, “The Church that forgot Christ.” Protecting children and adults from abuse must be a higher priority than being concerned about a music video that offended some but not others.
According to the media, this music video by Sabrina Carpenter was viewed 9.7 million times on You Tube. The diocese of Brooklyn ought to congratulate Monsignor Gigantiello for finding a way to get 9.7 million people to see the inside of the church. Perhaps the church should make some music videos to attract a wider audience but above all, the church must keep abuse from happening and swiftly prosecute those who hurt others.
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In this episode, Pastor Mark talks about the history behind Abraham Lincoln’s Thanksgiving Day proclamation and requests that we all show more gratitude each day, not one per year.
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Monday Ministerial Musings
By Rev. Mark William Ennis
2023 Blog #47
November 27, 2023
Thanksgiving Controversies
I had a great celebration for Thanksgiving Day this past week. The food was great, and family and friends gathered. There was no controversy, no political conversation, but a lot of eating, playing with my Grandsons, and feeling very thankful.
I know that for some, Thanksgiving becomes controversial. I have heard that some parents don’t want children to be taught about the Native Americans and the Pilgrims when being instructed about the first Thanksgiving. Many historians believe that the narrative of friendly natives and friendly pilgrims eating a feast together is really a false narrative. I have also ready social media posts from Native Americans who wish to protest Thanksgiving, as well as Columbus Day, because these are holidays that celebrate white oppression over native peoples.
I wish that we would return to the Thanksgiving Proclamation of 1864 authored by Abraham Lincoln. Lincoln kept us focused when he made the fourth Thursday of November a day of giving thanks. I encourage everyone to read it: https://www.abrahamlincolnonline.org/lincoln/speeches/thanks.htm
In this proclamation, Lincoln does not discuss natives nor pilgrims. Neither does Lincoln discuss politics. Lincoln, in his proclamation, given while the Civil War still raged, and families in the north and south of our nation mourning deceased loved ones, simply focused on giving thanks. That is a simple message that often gets hidden in the controversies that surround this holiday.
If anyone had a difficult life, it was Lincoln. He was born in poverty, had a wife who might have been bi-polar. Perhaps he himself suffered depression. By the time of his Thanksgiving proclamation, he had buried two of his sons from disease. In addition, his beloved nation was at war during his whole presidency. He didn’t have an easy life. And yet, despite all the suffering he endured, he could still find things to be thankful for, and call all Americans to be thankful.
If any of us feel that we have lives where there is nothing to be thankful for, I encourage us to look a bit farther. Even the least prosperous of us have things to be thankful for. If we think our lives are hard, would we rather be living in Ukraine, Sudan, or Gaza? All of us have a great deal to be thankful for. Let us continue to be thankful, not just on the Day of Thanksgiving, but every day of the year.
Let us wake up each morning thanking God for all our blessings. Our feelings of gratitude will translate into our acting our best selves and others will notice how graciously we treat others.
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In this episode, Pastor Mark talks about the traditional Thanksgiving Dinner that his congregation hosts every year but celebrates the cultural differences that the dinner will have this year.
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Pastor Mark is a Christian Pastor, author, blogger, and sometimes background actor. He brings all of his years of life experience to ask spiritual questions about the ordinary events of life.
Monday Ministerial Musings
By Rev. Mark William Ennis
2023 Blog #46
November 20, 2023
A Different Thanksgiving This Year
Since long before I became pastor of the congregation I serve, there has been a custom around Thanksgiving. I inherited this custom and have enjoyed it thoroughly. This custom is to hold a Thanksgiving Dinner for congregation members on the day before Thanksgiving.
This tradition began decades before I ever heard of this congregation and, I am told, was originally begun for people without families to go to for the holiday. It was established for single people who would have spent this festive day alone and was meant to give fellowship, and good food for people who might otherwise have spent the day by themselves.
I must say that I am happy to have inherited this tradition. It has brought me joy over the years to have welcomed people to this festive dinner. Unlike most of our fellowship meals, this one is elegant, using China dishes instead of paper plates, glass stem-wear instead of paper cups, and even candles lit on the tables. Visitors from outside our congregation who have attended this event have commented that it is fancier than they have seen in church facilities. I consider that to be quite a compliment.
The turkeys are always supplied by two sisters who are part of the church. One of these two also supplies corn pudding. People attending bring dishes to pass. Of course, over the years, these have been rather traditional Thanksgiving dishes. Mashed potatoes, vegetables, stuffing, and gravy have all been on the menu. This year I suspect that our menu might be a little different.
Beginning in January, a Hispanic church planter has been working with us and we now have a new, Spanish Speaking congregation nested within our congregation. Many of those folks will be attending this Thanksgiving dinner. For some folks, this will be their first Thanksgiving in the United States. They don’t know about Turkeys, stuffing, or mashed potatoes but they will be bringing dishes to share at the dinner. I don’t know what food they will be bringing but I suspect it will be very different from the kind of foods that we think of when we Anglos think of Thanksgiving. I don’t know what additions to expect but I do expect a few surprises.
Yes, our tradition continues, and we will be sharing food, enjoying fellowship with new friends and old friends. This year our tradition won’t change but our menu will. Some people, who have attended this dinner for years will be guests again, but newcomers will also be there. It will be the same but different and I suspect that it will be better.
I look forward to this event more than I have in the past. I suspect it will be a blessing to all.
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In this episode, Pastor Mark contrasts his trip to the Holy Land one year ago and the conditions of warfare there now. He talks about the need to live each day fully as we never know what tomorrow will bring.
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Pastor Mark is a Christian Pastor, author, blogger, and sometimes background actor. He brings all of his years of life experience to ask spiritual questions about the ordinary events of life.
Monday Ministerial Musings
By Rev. Mark William Ennis
2023 Blog #45
November 13, 2023
What A Difference A Year Makes
I received a pop-up on my Facebook account yesterday. It was a picture that I posted one year ago when I was a traveler in the Holy Land. I do not recall who took the picture, but it is of a large portion of our group that made this trip. It was the best trip that I have taken in my life. I am very happy that I took this trip last year. This year the trip would have been impossible because of the war that Israel is waging against Hamas in Gaza.
The Holy Land was experiencing relative peace when we were there. But even then, we were not able to visit Jacob’s Well. This historic place sits in the occupied West Bank and there were some demonstrations going on there. Many demonstrations in the West Bank quickly escalate and the Israeli army quickly suppresses them with great force and might.
Not seeing Jacob’s Well was a disappointment for me. I would have enjoyed standing on the spot where Jesus spoke to the Samaritan Woman. This is one place that I looked forward to standing on. I am happy however, that we did not take the risk. I certainly did not wish to become a victim of mob violence or get caught in the middle of a violent clash.
Frequently in the occupied areas there are demonstrations. Israel, with a history of holocaust, the early fighting with Palestinians before Israel was founded as a nation, the Six Day War, and the Yom Kippur War, is justified in its fear of annihilation and it’s need for security and survival. The Palestinians are angry. Their land is being occupied and they face conditions of poverty because of the constraints that Israeli control imposes on these lands. I understand the anger and fears of those on both sides of this conflict even as I hope and pray for a peaceful resolution.
The security of Israel must be guaranteed. Likewise, I pray that the occupied lands will no longer be occupied, and Palestinian rule will be restored to these lands that have been occupied for fifty years. Terrorism will never end if people are held in conditions of poverty and feel hopeless about their situation every improving. It seems to me that the best way to eliminate terrorism is to increase the standard of living of those who could potentially be terrorists.
One year after we visited the Holy Land, Hamas attacked Israel, killing, or wounding 1,200 Israelis. Another 200 are being held hostage, assuming they are still alive. The real effect of Hamas’ attacks is the deaths of Gaza civilians which is now estimated at over 11,000. If Hamas was trying to benefit Palestinians by the invasion of Israel, the group failed miserably.
One year ago, we walked through the Holy Land in relative peace. We never dreamed that such an attack by Hamas would happen. One year ago, the Palestinians in Gaza never dreamed that war would be happening on their land. One year ago, Israeli citizens could not possibly have dreamt that their security wall could be breached as it was and so many families in Israel would be mourning dead relative and worrying about their family members taken hostage.
What a difference a year makes. Often, we live lives thinking that what we experience will last forever. We can become oblivious to potential dangers. Nothing, however, is guaranteed. None of us knows what tomorrow will bring. Let us enjoy each moment of life. If there is a blessing to give or a kindness to grant, let us do it today. We do not know if tomorrow will come. Let us live each day to its fullness.
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Monday Ministerial Musings
By Rev. Mark William Ennis
2023 Blog #44
November 6, 2023
Trick or Treat for Prayers
I remember loving Halloween when I was a child. Costumes were fun and collecting candy was even better. All the kids on the block would go Trick or Treating together so we were safe but that really wasn’t a concern. We never left our neighborhoods. We knew the neighbors and the neighbors knew us.
Of course, there were holiday parties sponsored by local organizations. Church youth group always had a party as did the cub scout troop and we had a small party at school. We even were allowed to wear costumes to school which was a welcome change from our usual dress code.
Now I see fewer Trick or Treaters than I did in past decades. Most towns in my area now hold “Trunk or Treat” events. I rather like them. They have turned Halloween from a kid event into a family event. For two years now, our congregation has participated in the Bergenfield Trunk or Treat. It has been a wonderful experience as I met people I would not have ordinarily met. It has been a chance for our congregation to get outside of itself and interact with the broader community.
This year, we participated a little differently than we did in past years. This year, instead of just giving out candy, we held prayer cards and asked those with whom we interacted to write down prayer request. Elder Tina, my partner in the event, passed out candy while I passed out church literature and prayer cards. Several people quickly filled out prayer requests and seemed grateful for our prayers. One man had eyes welled with tears as he asked me to pray for his family. His family lives in Gaza. My heart was broken when I read his prayer request.
I am happy that our congregation is participating in this community event. I also am happy that we are giving out more than candy. One of the best things that we can give to our community is our prayers. Do we as Christians do this enough?
The people that I approached asking for their prayer requests seemed genuinely surprised. I wonder if anyone has offered to pray for them before.
It reminded me a bit of an old song by Billy Joel,
“You said your mother told you ‘All that I could give you was a reputation.’ She never cared for me but did she ever say a prayer for me?”
If we who are faithful are not offering to pray for people, we are not doing our jobs very well. The prayers of God’s faithful are powerful and are among the most important things that we can give to people in the world. Are we doing that job well enough?
Our Trunk or Treat was a real opportunity for us to get out of our buildings and engage with people and learn of their real concerns. I hope that none of us wait until next Halloween to do it again. Maybe this is what we ought to be doing every day of the year.
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In this episode, Pastor Mark describes his congregation’s participation in the local “Trunk or Treat” celebration in town and the reaction that he received while asking people what prayer concerns, they had and how the congregation could pray for them.
Go to this link to hear the podcast: https://rss.com/podcasts/pastormarkchat/1206067/
Pastor Mark is a Christian Pastor, author, blogger, and sometimes background actor. He brings all of his years of life experience to ask spiritual questions about the ordinary events of life.
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