In this episode, Pastor Mark describes a book signing party at New Brunswick Theological Seminary. The book was written by the seminary president, Dr. Micah McCreary and concerns Trauma and Race.
Pastor Mark is a Christian Pastor, author, blogger, and sometimes background actor. He brings all of his years of life experience to ask spiritual questions about the ordinary events of life.
“Trauma and Race: A Path to Wellbeing” by Rev. Dr. Micah McCreary
During this past week I had the privilege of attending a book signing party at New Brunswick Theological Seminary. The author of the book is Rev. Dr. Micah McCreary who is the president of New Brunswick Theological Seminary, and the book title is “Trauma and Race: A Path to Wellbeing.” It is published by Fortress Press.
I was pleased to attend this book signing and look forward to reading this book although the topic is rather disturbing. It obviously involves race relations and the trauma that non-white people carry within them from generations of abuse. Whether we are comfortable with this or not, there has been a systematic oppression of non-white people by white people since our country was formed.
Indigenous people had their land stolen and the attempt to eradicate such people was an official policy of the United States Government. Black people came to our country, not willingly but through violent force. As late as the 1950’s when suburbs were booming, many of them had provisions in deeds which dis-allowed people of color from buying or moving into these suburbs. The policies of white Americans since our founding should not be anything that we white people should be proud of.
Many of us hate that such a system of oppression began and continues but few of us have discovered ways to get beyond such systems and move toward a society of justice, fairness, and equal treatment. Rev. Dr. McCreary’s book shows a potential path to these goals.
With his background in theology as well as counselling, he has designed a system for overcoming the trauma that has haunted people of color through hundreds of years of systemic racial oppression. This book shows a way forward toward healing. It is not simply a glance back with a look at the present and no hope for the future. This book brings hope for a better future, new healing, and a better tomorrow.
I was pleased to be part of Micah’s book signing party and to hear him interviewed a about his book. I consider him to be a friend and I was happy to share this moment with him. More important than the event is the book itself and the ideas behind it. As Christians, reconciliation and justice are goals that we must strive for and in this book, Dr. McCreary has given us a path toward those goals.
As uncomfortable as this book is for us, I recommend that we all read it. Its message is valuable for people of all races. Reconciliation and justice is an issue for every type of person who longs for the justice and righteous that God requires of us.
May God bless Rev. Dr. McCreary richly for this gift that he has given us.
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I was heart sick over the weekend when I learned of the invasion into Israel by members of Hamas. I especially felt sick when I heard of the massacres of young people and the kidnapping of an elderly woman. What made this matter worse for me was that I learned that a colleague of my wife has family living in a village near the Gaza strip where the invasion came from. I condemn this attack by Hamas.
Let me say that I am in great sympathy with the Palestinians. I have not visited the Gaza strip, but I have toured through East Jerusalem and the West Bank. I am appalled by the way that Palestinians are treated in these occupied lands. I understand the anger that Palestinians have. Nevertheless, I cannot excuse the actions of Hamas and I wonder how much more suffering that Palestinians will endure because of this attack. It seems to me that the tactics used by Hamas, and groups like Hamas hurt, not help, the Palestinians. I wish that they will begin using tactics that will alleviate the oppression of these people.
In my opinion, the best way to help the oppressed minority is to gain sympathy for the oppressed. World opinion, if it was solidly supporting the Palestinians, might be able to influence the Israeli government to treat people living in the occupied zones with a bit more respect and dignity. To gain such sympathy, it is imperative that such terrorist activities cease. One cannot gain support for Palestinians when attacks such as this are carried out.
Hamas has now given an excuse to Israel to launch its military force against Palestinians. There will be more bombings in Gaza. Perhaps there will be a land invasion in Gaza also. I do hope that the retaliation from the Israeli military will not cause suffering for those living on the West Bank, East Jerusalem, or the Golan Heights. If these people are attacked, their blood is on the hands of Hamas.
Every missile that lands in Israel, every attack on a Synagogue, every citizen of Israel who is shot or kidnapped, every death at the hands of terrorists, will hurt the cause for Palestinian equality. Each of these attacks give a reason for the Israeli army to treat Palestinians harshly.
Historically, each attack by Arab nations or and each terrorist attack, simply gives Israel the opportunity to occupy land and treat Palestinians as enemies. Can one blame Israel for protecting itself? The attack of Hamas only adds credence to Israeli fears for its own security.
I am in great sympathy for the plight of Palestinians. These people are not treated fairly or with dignity in the occupied areas. Attacks by terrorists make conditions worse and makes it difficult to gain global sympathy for the plight of those living in occupied lands.
Hamas, Hezbollah, any radical terrorists, please stop such attacks. You are only hurting the Palestinian cause by these actions. Israel will never consider being a friend if its security is threatened.
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Now the LORD came and stood there, calling as before, “Samuel! Samuel!” And Samuel said, “Speak, for your servant is listening.” (v. 10 NRSV)
My son wakes up with an alarm clock each morning, but he enjoys lying in bed for a few minutes before rising to greet the day. After a while, I go to my son’s room and gently call his name until he responds and rises. For him, the day is much more easily approached when I come to invite him into it.
Over the years, I have heard many Christians voice frustration over God’s apparent silence when they long to hear God speaking. They want God to come and gently remind them of his presence in a loud, blaring world; to hear God’s voice helping, guiding, comforting, and calming. We long for the certainty of God’s presence, a word of clarity from him, or confidence to act on something that we know like we know comes from God.
Joshua 1:9 reminds us, “Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.” This was certainly true for young Samuel; the Lord came and stood right there, calling to him. God is also gentle with us, awakening us to his word and his call. God is right here and is with us wherever we go. We have the opportunity to respond as easily as Samuel, “Speak, for your servant is listening.”
As you pray, tune into the near presence of God Almighty. Ask for a word to be spoken, just for you.
In this episode, Pastor Mark discussed the number of people reporting religious abuse and asks if we are really doing all we can do to police ourselves and stop abuse.
Pastor Mark is a Christian Pastor, author, blogger, and sometimes background actor. He brings all of his years of life experience to ask spiritual questions about the ordinary events of life.
Each month, Dr. Pam and the Hudson River Counseling Center is featured on “The Pulse” with Peter B. The Pulse is a cable TV show that is shown in Hudson County. Among other things, Dr. Pam uses this platform to advertise her program, “My Sanctuary Healing” which is a support group for those who have been the victims of religious abuse. Peter B. told Dr. Pam that each month when she and “My Sanctuary Healing” is featured, there is good viewership and many positive emails because of these segments. Is this a good thing or a bad thing?
I’m not being sarcastic. I’m happy that people are seeing these episodes and are responding but I am sad that so many people can resonate with abuse whether this abuse takes place domestically or in religious settings. I know what Jesus is thinking about abuse done in his name. What is the matter with Jesus’ disciples who are perpetrating these crimes or allowing others to perpetrate these crimes on church property or in Jesus’ name.
Dr. Pam filmed a new type of segment recently which will air in October. In this type of segment, she answers questions that viewers email in. Sadly, many of the emails that were mailed in had abuse as the subject and some of those involved church abuse. Clearly, this is a greater problem than most of us wish to acknowledge.
Many times, we in the church, tolerate abuse in various forms for a variety of reasons. Many of us are conflict avoidant. Many times, we excuse bad behavior because the perpetrators are volunteers, and we don’t wish to offend people who do volunteer work for us. In some instances, we excuse bad behavior because the offenders are “old, long-term members” and we give them too much leeway in behavior.
Yet, we complain that our congregations are shrinking as we meet more abuse victims who are leaving churches. Can we not make the connections between people being mis-treated and treated rudely and our shrinking congregations? It seems to me that we can make a connection between how congregations act and how many people are leaving.
It is up to us, who are part of the church, to discipline one another. When people are treated dis-respectively how can we expect them to want to worship with us. In many cases, such people have not lost their faith in Jesus, but have lost faith in the church. I hope that this blog is a wake-up call to everyone of us who profess to be disciples of Christ. Whenever we gossip, whenever we are rude, whenever loose our temper with others, we are hurting others, the church, and Jesus himself. It is time that we reclaim a pillar of Christ’s church, discipline. We need to police ourselves as well as one another. Each time we treat others in ways that we would not wish to be treated, we weaken the church that we have pledged ourselves to support.
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Godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation. (v. 10)
In recent years, protests have erupted across America. Depending on which side of an issue you identify with, you’ll consider a given protest needlessly destructive or justifiably disruptive. But at its best, protest takes on the shape of lament: honest assessment of, and grief over, what is wrong with the world.
As believers in Jesus, we know our world isn’t as it should be. In Romans 8, Paul argues that every believer is indwelt by the Holy Spirit, and that we “who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for [our] . . . redemption” (v. 23). The Spirit’s restlessness for the restoration of creation provokes self-reflection in us and, according to Paul, produces sorrow. And this sorrow leads to repentance: a change of mind and a change of direction.
God’s gift is that Spirit-inspired grief always comes with grace. Thanks to Christ’s death on the cross, the Spirit’s confrontation brings no condemnation, only conviction. The change God’s Spirit demands is change he enables. The Spirit makes us restless for change, and then moves us toward his vision of new creation.
If you’re restless with the state of your world, take heart. The Spirit of the living God is restless, and he shares his restless heart with all who believe. At the same time, allow his irresistible redemptive impulse to work from the inside out—conforming you first to Christ’s righteousness, then calling you as an agent of restoration in creation.
As you pray, ask the Spirit to make you restless and give you rest.
Yesterday our congregation celebrated our “Welcome Home Party.” Our congregation goes virtual in August through Labor Day, and we give people a few weeks after Labor Day to get back from vacations and settle back into our routines. Therefore, we celebrate our “Welcome Home” a few weeks after Labor Day.
It is a rather festive celebration with a DJ, grills, and a potluck sharing of dishes to pass. Anyone who has grown up in church knows how wonderful potluck meals are. We taste flavors that we usually don’t experience and learn recipes that most of us never would have thought of. There is always an abundance of food, and we eat to excess. After a few years we tend to know which people are bringing which dish. We are, after all, creatures of habit.
This year, our Welcome Home party was different. It included new recipes from our newest worship participants, immigrants from Latin America. Nine months ago, we hired a Seminary student who immigrated from Columbia to begin a Spanish Language worship service that is nested within our congregation. Now we have between 7 and 14 Latin American immigrants who are part of our Church fellowship. They, of course, joined in our party and brought food from their native countries. Our potluck has expanded to include Latin food. At our party I could hear many people speaking in English but also a number speaking Spanish.
This party reminded me of my first parish in Hoboken. The membership of this congregation was recent immigrants from India as well as older Germans who had immigrated from Germany as children or who were born here but had parents who had immigrated from Germany. The potluck dinners there were an interesting mixture of German and Indian cuisine. At fellowship time we heard a mixture of Hudson County, German, and Indian accents. Communication was interesting at times, but we worked through it. The Holy Spirit was there.
I am reminded of the Biblical account of Pentecost. People from many nations were gathered but spoke many languages. When the Holy Spirit descended upon the gathering, they were able to communicate and understand one another despite their language and cultural differences.
I can’t help but wonder if the Holy Spirit is coming upon us, although less dramatically than at Pentecost, as we gather from different cultures have different languages and foods, but we share Christ. Those filled with the Holy Spirit celebrate this. I pray for those who don’t embrace it, that they will receive the Holy Spirit, and join in this celebration of diversity.
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