Monday Ministerial Musings

By Rev. Mark William Ennis

2021 Blog Number 33

August 16, 2021

Vacation Blog #3

Pastor Mark is on vacation and is not writing blogs now. He pre-wrote and uploaded these vacation blogs before leaving on vacation. Because they are dated they may or may not reflect current event.

Where Did The Women Go?

The week before I left for vacation I spent a wonderful day down the Jersey Shore. One of the sights that stood out for me was the announcement of the speakers for the Sunday Worship Service in the Great Auditorium. As a child I never attended a service in the auditorium but I did attend programs there. Particularly I attended organ concerts there. As a boy I was overwhelmed by the crowds (the auditorium was packed) as well as the grandeur of the organ. There certainly were men in the crowd but, like my home church, two thirds of the attenders were women. Indeed, in many places in my lifetime, women have made up the majority of the faithful who supported congregations with their attendance and cash. So why were there no women ministers?

Several groups of Methodists ordained women ministers as early as the 1860’s. The mainline United Methodist Church allowed women to be full ministers in 1956. There was still rumblings about this in the 1960’s when I was a Sunday School student.

In 1979, after I had become part of the Reformed Church, I was shocked that the Reformed church was still debating women’s ordination. I thought that this issue had been settled by Christians decades before. I had only begun to realize how different denominations could be on pivotal issues.

Women in both the United Methodist Church and the Reformed Church in America, now make up a large percentage of our ministers. Women have now been ordained in the United Methodist Church for 65 years. Why are no women invited to preach at the Great Auditorium? Clergy Women who I know have long told me that although women are ordained, they often feel backwashed and held down. In short, they feel there is the proverbial “glass ceiling” in the church. When I see this “male-only” roster at the Great Auditorium I can’t help but wonder if the female clergy I know are correct.

If this is true, it is a true injustice. The church that claims to fight against injustice might want to address this issue.

#ClintonAvenueReformedChurch                         #ReformedChurchInAmerica                    

#PastorMarkAuthordotcom                                   

#BergenfieldNJ

#Ocean Grove                                                         

#AsburyPark

#BradleyBeach                                                         #Women’sOrdination

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Monday Ministerial Musings

By Rev. Mark William Ennis

2021 Blog Number 32

August 9, 2021

Vacation Blog #2

Pastor Mark is on vacation and is not writing blogs now. He pre-wrote and uploaded these vacation blogs before leaving on vacation. Because they are dated they may or may not reflect current event.

Ocean  Grove Non-Methodist Worship

The week before I left for vacation I took a daytrip down the shore. Specifically, I went to Bradley Beach, Ocean Grove and Asbury Park. I remember these towns well from my childhood. These were founded as Methodist towns along the Jersey shore. I was raised a Methodist and as a child I knew many people who had homes in this area. I was feeling nostalgic when I walked along those boardwalks again, hearing the ocean and smelling the salt air.

I remembered back to the days of Methodist programs on the boardwalk. It was not uncommon to hear area preachers giving messages and frequently area choirs performing Wesley Hymns. I grew up with this and enjoyed it. It always struck me, however, that even in my childhood, in the 1960’s, the attendance was largely older people. Few younger people vacationed in Ocean Grove or celebrated this rich Methodist history.

On this recent daytrip to Ocean Grove, I passed a boardwalk pavilion and saw a worship service in process. It didn’t look like or sound like one of the old Methodist service that I remember. It was being led by a local church with a significant mix of ethnic groups, many Latino look people. Back when I was a Methodist we had three kinds of people; White Methodists, Black Methodists and a small core of Korean Methodists. All of the groups in that era dress formally and sang traditional hymns with a piano. This new group attending worship dressed informally, and sang praise hymns. They may or may not have heard of the hymns written by John and Charles Wesley.

Personally, I like the beat and cadence of much praise music but I don’t care for how the words constantly repeat. I miss the “story telling” of many of the traditional hymns rather than the redundancy of praise music. And yet, this music attracts younger people of different ethnicities. Certainly, I can’t complain about that.

Some people like to frame things in terms of “better” or “worse.” In discussing traditional hymns or praise music I prefer to view things as “different but equal.”

#ClintonAvenueReformedChurch                         #ReformedChurchInAmerica                    

#PastorMarkAuthordotcom                                    #BergenfieldNJ

#OceanGrove                                                           #AsburyPark

#BradleyBeach                                                         #Pentecostals

# PraiseMusic                                                           #TraditionalHymns

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Monday Ministerial Musings

By Rev. Mark William Ennis

2021 Blog Number 31

August 2, 2021

Vacation Blog #1

Pastor Mark is on vacation and is not writing blogs now. He pre-wrote and uploaded these vacation blogs before leaving on vacation. Because they are dated they may or may not reflect current event.

You Have A Weapon! Hurt No One

The week before I left for vacation I was hospital calling when I hit traffic. Anyone I know will tell you how I hate traffic. I was grumbling about the delay. I stopped grumbling when I saw the reason for the delay. There was a collision between a car and someone on a bicycle. I realized that my problem, sitting in traffic, was nothing compared to the drama of those involved in the traffic accident.

I saw this incident and I could once more hear the words of my high school driving teacher. He always told us that someday when we were driving cars we would “be handling a weapon.” He then advised us to “hurt no one.”

Sometimes we forget just how much harm, or blessing we can bring to others. Our lives matter. We do have influence, for better or worse, upon those around us. We forget this at our own peril, and possible the peril of others. In governing our lives, we can bless or curse others by what we do or what we do not do.

At work do our co-workers celebrate our presence or feel dread when we arrive? Family, friends, retailers, do these folks celebrate us or are we the cause of harm?

Each and every day our lives can bless or curse. Let us use our lives well. “You have a weapon.” “Hurt no one!”

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#PastorMarkAuthordotcom                                   

#BergenfieldNJ

# DoNoHarm                                                            

#BeABlessing

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Monday Ministerial Musings

By Rev. Mark William Ennis

2021 Blog Number 30

July 26, 2021

Healing Hands?

It was difficult for me to refrain from hospital calling during the Covid-19 pandemic. I have done a lot of hospital sick calls in my thirty-seven years of ordination. For me, hospital calling is more than part of ministry, it is personal. I know from the point of view of a patient how important visitation is.

When I was 10 years old I had surgery that went badly. I was very ill. People were wondering if I would survive or not. Amid the doctors and nurses poking and probing me, a friendly visit was always a treat. I did survive, but appreciated visitation.

At 29 I was deathly ill from Crohn’s disease and an allergy to medicine that I was given. I spent weeks in the hospital. About the only pleasurable time for me at that period was visitation. I vowed then that visitation of the sick would always be a priority.

When I pastored in Albany I volunteered as an overnight chaplain at Albany Medical Center. It was intense work and I did it for six years. I was told by a number of people how important such visits were. I felt gratified that I was able to be there for patients and families.

Calling on the sick has been a pastoral priority for me for decades. Then, the Corona Virus hit and hospital visits ceased. I felt like something was missing from my life and ministry. Finally, restrictions were lifted and hospital visits returned.

Shortly after these restrictions ended, I was called to the hospital. A beloved elder was in ICU. I held here hand as we prayed and I realized what I had been missing for over one year. I was missing Holy Hands praying for Healing.

Yes, I have been back almost every day visiting this woman holding hands, praying and asking for healing. I wonder if any ministry can really be complete without the presence, touch, and prayer. Jesus encountered, touched and prayed. Let all of us imitate Jesus in these activities.

#ClintonAvenueReformedChurch                         #ReformedChurchInAmerica                    

#PastorMarkAuthordotcom                                   

#BergenfieldNJ

# PastoralVisitation                                                 

#HealingHands

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Monday Ministerial Musings

By Rev. Mark William Ennis

2021 Blog Number 29

July 19, 2021

Holy Name Hospital and Visiting Clergy

It has been a common practice for hospitals to allow visiting clergy free parking privileges, and often extensions above and beyond visiting hours. This has been my experience since I was a seminary student in the 1980’s and has been true at both private and public hospitals. The theory behind these special privliges is that visiting clergy supplement the spiritual care of the Pastoral Care departments of hospitals and that giving spiritual car to patients is good for their health and recovery. At times I have heard from nurses that we are “part of the team.” I am wondering if this is true at Holy Name Hospital in Teaneck, NJ.

Like most hospitals in years past area clergy were given ID tags that said, “clergy.” A while back Holy Name issued us tags that say, “contractor.” I wasn’t sure whether or not this was a step up or a step down in value and prestige.

Of course, for over a year, the Covid-19 plague precluded me, and other local clergy from visiting. It is only recently that I have been able to visit again. In most hospitals clergy ID is sufficient to allow visits and no additional visitor tag is required. This is not true at Holy Name Hospital. Holy Name requires an additional visitor badge to visit. I visit patients at Holy Name with two tags instead of one. This always made me wonder what the value of these tags actually is.

At the parking lot, my tag no longer opens the gate to the employee lot where we once parked. Instead, I took a ticket at the visitors lot to visit at the hospital. I inquired at the desk about parking vouchers and was told that they “no longer validate parking tickets.” Any questions on parking tags should be brought to security.

I went to security and was told that I would have to speak to Pastoral Care. There was no longer anyone in that office so I called the next day. I was told that Pastoral Care no longer gives such parking tags to local clergy. I assume that the hospital no longer sees local clergy as being a valuable part of the healing team. I guess we don’t matter.

The flexibility of visiting hours has often been helpful to patients who wish their clergy to pray with them before surgeries or procedures. Recently I went to visit a patient at 11:00 in the morning. It seemed like a reasonable time to visit and I knew that she would be having a procedure and I wished to see her beforehand. I was told by the lady at the reception desk that “visiting hours start at noon.” I explained that I was visiting clergy and showed her my tag. She repeated, “visiting hours start at noon.” My hospital issued tag, obviously did not matter. With no clergy parking or visitation flexibility, what is the purpose of the tag? I waited till noon while trying to call the patient on the phone to know avail. When I got to the room shortly after noon, the room was empty. She had gone to her procedure shortly before noon.

These procedures certainly will not keep me from visiting congregation members who are patients. I will simply pay to park and alter my visitation times to keep compliant with the established hours. I can’t help but wonder why a hospital that calls itself “Holy Name” would hold visiting clergy is such disregard. Since Holy Name is not living up to its name maybe it is time for the hospital to adapt a new name. Maybe it should be called, “Teaneck Hospital.”

Am I wrong? Do you agree with me? Please “like,” “share,” and comment on this. I would like thousands of people to know who Holy Name Hospital disregards visiting clergy.

#ClintonAvenueReformedChurch                         #ReformedChurchInAmerica                    

#PastorMarkAuthordotcom                                    #BergenfieldNJ

#HolyNameHospital                                                 #TeaneckNJ

# PastoralVisitation                                                  #ClergyParking

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Monday Ministerial Musings

By Rev. Mark William Ennis

2021 Blog Number 28

July 12, 2021

1776, 1833, 1865 and Slavery

This week I finished the last of my July 4 rituals. There are three that I have. Of course, I have a party. That is the most important one. It was family only a year ago because of the Covid Plague. The other two are to watch “Gettysburg.” Many people don’t know that this was fought from July 1-3 and the following day, July 4^th, came the fall of Vicksburg to the forces of General Grant. With these losses, the defeat of the confederacy was all but certain.

My third ritual is to watch the movie “1776” which chronicles the writing of the Declaration of Independence. I was raised to honor the men who had the courage to break away from England and form our republic. This movie portraits the flaws of these men and their desire to be free while some owned slaves and others tolerated the owning of slaves. In order to have unity in this revolution, slavery was tolerated. Thomas Jefferson’s words, “All men are created equal” really meant “All White Men are created equal.” I wonder if I would enjoy watching this movie if I was a descendent of those slaves and I wonder how many black people I know could watch this movie without becoming upset and angry.

It is a sad irony that had we not had our revolution the slaves that Americans held would have been freed far earlier than they were. Our slaves waited ninety years to be free. It took the deaths of 750,000 Americans, 2.5% of the population to win freedom for slaves in 1865. Had we remained part of England these slaves would have been freed in 1833. That is the year that the British Parliament outlawed slavery.

Yes, I still honor our founding fathers. They indeed had a vision of democracy over monarchy. Perhaps the best was we can honor their vision is to bring it to full flower. Even today, in some places in our nation, all people are not treated equally. Not every voice is given the same attention. In some places there is not justice for all. Maybe establishing justice for all, in every part of our nation is the job of our generation. We, inspired by our fore-bearers, can bring this bud of a dream into full flower.

#ClintonAvenueReformedChurch                         #ReformedChurchInAmerica                    

#PastorMarkAuthordotcom                                   

#BergenfieldNJ

#IndependenceDay                                                

#Slavery

#AmericanCivilWar                                                 

#1776

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Monday Ministerial Musings

By Rev. Mark William Ennis

2021 Blog Number 27

July 5, 2021

America’s Birthday Party: Make A Wish!

“Make a wish and blow out the candles.” How many times have we heard that sentence? It depends on how many years we have lived. The wishes on my birthday have changed over the years. I remember when I was a kid wishing for toys, when I was older wishing for money. Now I guess I wish for more time with the kids and grandchildren. Now that we have celebrated our nation’s birthday I wonder what our nation would wish for.

My hunch is that she would wish for unity; putting our divisions aside and find common ground to work toward goals that all would be blessed by. I imagine that our nation is crying because of our current divisions. In my lifetime I can remember few times when we have been so divided.

I was shocked in this past year when I heard of a ministerial colleague who was pressured into resigning because he did not verbally support a president from the pulpit.

I was horrified when hundreds of my fellow citizens disrespected my capital by storming it. I was even more disturbed when several friends of mine were watching this on television and cheering on the crowds as if they were spectators at a baseball game.

It makes me sick when political parties play “parliamentary games” rather than have honest discussions and reach solutions to common goals.

I heard the story recently that a Bible study was disrupted. Two participants decided to debate politics instead of studying the Bible. It was sad that God’s word took second place to politics.

I wish for unity. I wish for finding common ground. I wish for politicians and supporters to act like grown-ups, not children arguing in a sandbox.

I have a hunch that The United States of America is making these same birthday wishes. Maybe we can all work toward these goals and give our nation the gifts that she wants.

#ClintonAvenueReformedChurch                         #ReformedChurchInAmerica                    

#PastorMarkAuthordotcom                                   

#BergenfieldNJ

#IndependenceDay                                                

#BirthdayParty

#BirthdayWishes                                                     

#BirthdayPresents

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Monday Ministerial Musings

By Rev. Mark William Ennis

2021 Blog Number 26

June 28, 2021

Driving Out Demons

On the Monday that this is posted I will be conducting a burial service for a man who grew up in our congregation. He died, troubled and alone in an SRO (single room occupancy) in a city a few miles away from our town which was his childhood home. In recent years I administered a special needs trust for the man set up for him by his late mother. This funeral and burial have been some of the most difficult that I have done in the last thirty-seven years of ministry.

This gentleman grew up in the church. He succeeded at everything he tried. He was a gifted musician and graduated at the top of his graduating class in high school. Later he graduated from an engineering college and taught there for a while. He received his master’s degree and was one dissertation short of his PHD.

I didn’t know him in those days. I only knew a different person. The person that I knew suffered from two different mental health disorders and refused to take medication. The person I knew self-medicated with alcohol and chained smoked tobacco. At times, I believe, he smoked other things as well. His sister told me that he was fine until college but then something “snaped” in him and he was never the same after that.

His mother, a Godly woman, prayed for him until the day she died. She was very patient with him by allowing him to live with her. I suspect that at times he was abusive to her but she would never discuss this. I prayed for the man and tried to engage with him but he would never engage. He claimed to be an atheist and told me to start reading Nietzsche.

Jesus gave power to his disciples to drive out demons. I have never demonstrated such power. I was never able to reach him or help him improve his quality of life. He died alone in his litter-strewn room, surrounded by his piles of hoarded collections.

When I received word of his death I struggled with guilt. What more might I have done for him? How could I have reached him? Since then, while helping his sister prepare for the wake and the funeral I keep asking myself what to say. How does one do a funeral for such a bright star that crashed so fast and far?

The answer came to me as I sorted through some of his old papers. I found his baptismal certificate among his papers. It was near the top of the pile in a folder of important papers. I assume, because of its placement, that he valued it despite calling himself an atheist. For all his demons and troubles, he belongs to Christ. I could not drive his demons out, but Christ has. His troubles and tears are over and that is something to celebrate. May the bells of heaven ring. He has been restored to what he was created to be.

#ClintonAvenueReformedChurch                         #ReformedChurchInAmerica                    

#PastorMarkAuthordotcom                                   

#BergenfieldNJ

#Demons                                                                  

#MentalIllness

#SubstanceAbuse                                                  

#Atheism

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Monday Ministerial Musings

By Rev. Mark William Ennis

2021 Blog Number 25

June 21, 2021

Juneteenth: An American Thing

A few years ago, I mentioned Juneteenth during a worship service. I was surprised that most folks had never heard of it. I wanted to make a bigger deal of it but most of the consistory did not feel the need or desire to do so. What surprised me most was a black woman with Caribbean origins told me that she had never heard of it before. Now it is a federal holiday as of this past Thursday when Joe Biden signed a bill into law. What a difference several years make in the knowledge of this holiday.

For those unfamiliar with this holiday, it has roots in Galveston, Texas on June 19, 1865. Of course, the Civil War ended in the spring of that year. Despite the ending of the war, many slaves still were held in captivity. Some slaveholders held onto slaves as long as they could through not telling the slaves of liberation and the lack of Union Troops to enforce the end of slavery. It took a bit of time for these soldiers to reach every pocket where slaves were held.

The last group of these slaves to be liberated was in Galveston, Texas. Union troops reached them on June 19. The result was a very large, impromptu beach party to celebrate freedom. Thus, began the tradition of Juneteenth.

I certainly believe that it is something to celebrate. Slavery is a major stain on our Nation’s history and I believe that we all ought to celebrate the ending of slavery. It disappoints me that I have seen Facebook posts claiming that Juneteenth is simply part of the “liberal agenda.” I’m certainly no liberal, nor do I have an agenda. As I celebrate American freedom each July 4th, so I celebrate the freedom of black citizens after they were treated so horribly for so many generations.

I celebrate the congress for passing this law and Joe Biden for signing it. Is it a “Left Wing thing?” Only if Thomas Jefferson’s writing that “all men are created equal” is a “Left Wing thing.” I simply thought that it was an “American Thing.”

#ClintonAvenueReformedChurch                         #ReformedChurchInAmerica                    

#PastorMarkAuthordotcom                                   

#BergenfieldNJ

#Juneteenth                                                             

#Slavery

#Bondage                                                                 

#CivilRights

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Monday Ministerial Musings

By Rev. Mark William Ennis

2021 Blog Number 24

June 14, 2021

What Are We Made Of?

Recently, for reasons known only to God, my attention was drawn toward a rock that I keep on the desk of my home office. This rock has no specific significance other than I like it and am fascinated when I look at it. I picked it up on the beach in Florida while on a visit to my wife’s uncle and aunt.

Now, generally I am not very interested in rocks. I took one geology class in my life and was intrigued by volcanos and earthquakes but rocks did not particularly interest me. This rock, however, is different. It is a coquina rock. These rocks are rocks that are made up almost entirely of the shells of shellfish, or material that is left behind such creatures. Overtime, these various objects cement together to form a rock which looks like no other type of rock.

When I look at this rock, I am not seeing a homogenous rock in which one end is similar to another. No, every part of this rock is quite unique to the other parts. Looking carefully, you can see some of the former objects that came together to form the rock, but in themselves would never have looked so interesting. Yes, all the objects had their own identity and they formed a mosaic.

This rock reminds me of my neighborhood growing up. All of the older people were German. The younger ones were Irish and Eastern European. The real newcomers were the Italians. Yet, we all lived together, professed a Christian faith and were proud to live on Beach street, a block that we thought was the best place in the world.

Beach Street then was really a microcosm of our Nation now. We are a mosaic of different cultures, each maintaining individual identity, and yet glued together by forces of nature to become something new. Do we resist this or celebrate this? My Coquina rock would not be as beautiful as it is without so many species donating of themselves to form it. Our nation, also, would not be as strong and beautiful without the contributions of so many people from so many places.

Let’s celebrate the Coquina rock that we have formed.

#ClintonAvenueReformedChurch                         #ReformedChurchInAmerica                    

#PastorMarkAuthordotcom                                   

#BergenfieldNJ

#CoquinaRocks                                                        #BeachStreetJerseyCity

#Mosaics                                                                  

#Ethnicities

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